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The truth behind the lie.: Moments that kill you


The moment when you have a mental break down because you truly aren’t good enough for anyone.

The moment when you realise that most of the things you have been told in your life have been lies.

The moment when you actually have pain in your chest because everything hurts so much and you burst…

Anonymous asked: This boy I like has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me hardcore. What does this mean?

It means he is either not interested in his girlfriend or that he is a player. 

Anonymous asked: my crush says i'm socially awkward. help?!

When you go out, try to interact more and start up conversations more. You just need to get out there and act natural. Don’t be shy. 

Anonymous asked: ok so there's this that tried to ask me out on a date, when he did i didn't really believe him because 1. he's way out of my league and 2. everytime i would see him he'd be hanging out with a different girl. he thinks i'm really shy and socially awkward. (i tend to be awkward around people i find attractive). he told me that he wants a good girlfriend. i started developing a crush on him, but he started talking to someone else. we still talk. should i just move on or keep on trying?

Well that is really your choice. It can be a hard one but you have to ask yourself if you like this person more as a friend or as a boyfriend. 

Anonymous asked: me and my close friend dated for a week but i broke up with him because of some stupid rumour i heard. the rumour included; "he likes someone else and is only using you to make her jealous." i feel guilty for actually believing these lies over my boyfriend and close friend. so now, i get jealous whenever he has his hands over some other girl or does anything with them. do you think i still like him? i mean we still talk and all but it's so awkward.

I do think you like him. But i think over time, youll know that your friendship means more then a relationship.

Hey Everyone.

I just want to apologise that I haven’t been on my blog in a while but please feel free to ask me questions because I’ll come on more to help you out. Thank you :) xxx

Anonymous asked: you can ignore a few anon messages that said my boy best friend was ignoring me and it started from his birthday because we worked it out, THANKYOU THOUGH! x

Sorry, I didn’t see this. haha. Well I’m glad it worked out for you guys :) 

xx

Anonymous asked: okay so. i like this guy. he likes me. he gets embarrassed around his friends sometimes, but it doesnt really bother me. like last week he said we should go to the movies sometime and i replied that i would really like that, and he said he would too. i didnt get to ask him yesterday to come to the movies with me tonight, do you think i should text him and ask him, to come tonight. or do you think i will sound like obsessed? or pushy? thanks. x

Maybe he just a bit busy and forgot but definitely don’t be shy to ask to go out and actually arrange a time so then you know it will definitely happen. You won’t seem pushy or obsessed. x

Anonymous asked: - your face and make it look better if you throw that thing at me" Lol, those words hurt but I still smiled and pretended I wasn't touched by it. The day continued but he began to mood swing heavily. It seemed that everything people did seemed to get on his nerves, Idk. It wasn't usual to see him like this. He got pissed at me and the people in the old friends section for not socializing with the rest of his new friends. I mean, everytime we did, we got practically ignored so like w/e right? -

Well for starters, I’m glad none of that awkwardness and stuff affected you and that it didn’t reck your mood. 
I think you should just start with the normal conversations like, how are you? how was your day? got anything planned for the weekend? 
Maybe even ask if you guys could hang out? Spend some time with him, maybe even tell him how you feel, and how you think he is blunting you off. I’m sure he isn’t doing it on purpose, he is your best friend after all. He seems to have just had some random mood swings or something. Some guys can be really confusing and say hurtful things without realising. 
I’m glad you stayed strong, I really admire your strength considering it would have been hard to here your best friend say that to you. 
I hope I helped. xo 

Anonymous asked: - them and they turned out really nice! I gave him my present all happy and etc and all he said to me was "you can go now, I have your present so bye" I felt hurt, extremely hurt but that didn't stop me from smiling still. For his birthday cake, he bought an ice cream one since he knew I hated normal cakes (sponge and etc) ehehe which made me extremely happy :] after that, we decided to have a water fight. it was fun fun and fun. But when I threw a water balloon at him he was like "I'll kick -